Stop Swiping.
Start Voting.

Men swipe, women vote. Harness the wisdom of the crowd to find your perfect someone.

  • 104 profiles live
  • 53 men
  • 51 women
A PickMyMate vote in progress: three men, and Eva's friends picking who she should date.

How it works

Four Steps (and a few rules!)

1

Create your profile

Your name, age and two photos. Women will also write or choose three questions that they want the men to answer.

2

Men swipe. Women vote.

Men will swipe and answer the questions of the women they are interested in. Meanwhile, women will vote on who is the best match…for other women.

Rule A woman must vote in at least 15 polls before she can see the latest result of her own poll.

3

Initiate the Vote

When a woman has 3 or more men answering her questions, she can choose to initiate a vote. Members of the site will choose who they believe is her best match. Friends and family can also vote via a voting link.

4

The Vote Ends

When a woman has at least 50 votes for her poll, she can choose to close it. The results of the poll are shown to her. She can now read all of the men's answers to her questions and she can freely message every man who contacted her.

5

Rinse and Repeat

When a woman gets three new matches, she can open up a new poll. She can still message men from previous voting rounds, assuming she hasn't deleted them as a match.