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Your name

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Age

I am a

Used to contact you about matches. Never shown on your profile.

Photo 1

Photo 2

JPEG, PNG or WebP, up to 8 MB each. Location data is removed automatically.

Your three questions

These are the questions the men will answer. Pick from the list or write your own.

Question 1 Pick one

Write your own

If you write one here, it's used instead of the pick above.

Question 2 Pick one

Write your own

If you write one here, it's used instead of the pick above.

Question 3 Pick one

Write your own

If you write one here, it's used instead of the pick above.

Choose a password

Password

Confirm password

At least 10 characters. Longer beats complicated.

I agree to PickMyMate storing my name, age, photos and answers so they can be shown to other participants. (what we store and who sees it)

I consent to PickMyMate processing information about my sexual orientation and other sensitive details I choose to include in my profile.

Taking part means your profile is shown to other participants, and the answers to a woman's questions are read by the friends and family she shares her poll with. You can ask us to delete everything at any time.

I agree to receive emails from PickMyMate.

Optional — leave it unticked and you can still take part. We'll always email you about your own account, such as a password reset you've asked for.

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